Did you know that the reflexive part (not the #logical part) of your brain 🧠 – which is OUTSIDE of your #awareness, is responsible for judgement? 🤯
It’s reactionary, and differs from one person to the next based on life history, experiences and choices in current surroundings/allowed influence.
It can be altered.
But… not without deliberate #effort.
➡️What are you #allowing yourself to be #influenced by?
➡️Do you immerse yourself in experiences outside of your comfort zone every now and again?
➡️Do you make an effort to get to know what people are about who are different from you? Their origins, experiences, upbringing? Or are you more comfortable with a group of people similar to you? (Most of us are)
➡️When others around you are being judge-mental do you break the pattern perhaps by asking why they are making that assumption or at least think of it internally? Or do you just go with the flow?
Its not complicated to start changing reflexive decision making, but it’s not #easy, because most of us don’t stop to think of these concepts. Unless our parents taught us or we stumbled into experiences that helped form us.
So start now. It’s never too late to keep growing in your personal development, which in turn optimizes your #contribution😊